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 · The singles on CFdating are childless by choice, and they want to stay that way. These individuals have often put a lot of thought into their futures, withstood questioning from family members, and concluded that having children isn’t in their best interest. CFdating doesn’t judge Browse Profiles & Photos of Christian Singles! Try Christian dating from blogger.com Join blogger.com, the leader in online dating with more dates, more relationships and As a CF woman who's done the online thing, here's my 2 cents: Don't bother responding to the guys who want kids. Either they didn't bother reading your profile very closely, or they think you're playing games or will "change your mind."

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submitted 7 months ago by puppies-n-icecream. So I am on Hinge, online-dating-cf, and they give the option to share publicly whether you have children or not and if you want them not not.

Mine says that I don't want them. And I have been getting all these awesome matches with guys, only to see that their profile says they want children, online-dating-cf.

And it's like, come on, man. Did you even read my profile or did you just think I was hot? It just sucks because I don't like just ghosting, so I have to get into a serious topic right off the bat where I have online-dating-cf tell them, hey, man.

I don't have kids, I don't want them, and I had my tubes taken out to make online-dating-cf I can't have them. And I hate saying it like this because I have seriously just cut it down to just that, so I sound like a cold monster that hates kids even though I love them, just never ever want any of my own.

You sound online-dating-cf an honest realist, definitely not a monster. I hope you get some other honest realists in your future. Thank you! I appreciate online-dating-cf so much, online-dating-cf. I probably just feel like I sound like a monster because that is what I assume people think of child free people.

Just say something vague like "judging by your profile, we have differing life goals, I don't think this will work. Goodbye" and leave online-dating-cf at that, online-dating-cf. Don't engage further. I wish I could do that! I just feel like I online-dating-cf them some kind of explanation because I don't want to sound mean or something. I wish I had the guts to online-dating-cf that without worrying what they would think.

Also, I LOVE YOUR FLAIR. Not your circus. Not your monkeys. I needed to hear this, online-dating-cf. Someone else said something to me along the lines of this, and it's so sad that I need this reminder. But I really appreciate you online-dating-cf this. It does help me a lot to hear it! Those are not the kind of people who should get above and beyond politeness. We are not customer service. Thank you so much for taking the time to break it down for me like this, online-dating-cf.

I really needed that, and it helps so much! If they don't even have the courtesy to read your profile, then you don't owe them your emotional labour. I know it's online-dating-cf to come across so firmly, but remember that online-dating-cf are strangers and the wording I suggested isn't rude or mean, it's just firm and clear in intent.

Best of luck! Just say 'you clearly did not read the 'no kids and doesnt want online-dating-cf part of my profile.

I dont date people who ignore my words or think they can change my mind'. Remember, online-dating-cf, single dads are usually mass emailing women and not even looking at her profile, just her pic, online-dating-cf. And if he cant be assed to read your profile or thinks he has a magic dick that can change your mind, online-dating-cf, he's an asshole you dont want anyways. You seriously don't owe them any kind of explanation, especially because sometimes these guys did read the profile, and see a childfree woman as someone they can fuck and not have to take seriously, online-dating-cf.

It sucks, there are some creeps out there. These are people online who couldn't take ten seconds to read your profile. You don't owe them shit or diddly squat. Don't online-dating-cf responding to the guys who want kids. Either they didn't bother reading your profile very closely, or they think you're playing games or will "change your mind. I used to do the same thing you're talking about, where I wanted to reply every time to not "ghost.

If they're serious about you, online-dating-cf, they'll 1 read your profile carefully, and 2 take your CF stance seriously. I really appreciate your online-dating-cf Thank you for taking the time to comment with your experience. The way you put it makes it easier for me to feel less rude if I don't mention why I am unmatching and just do it, online-dating-cf.

It's a jungle out there, online-dating-cf, especially for CF people, just put yourself first and you'll do great, online-dating-cf. Online-dating-cf not ghosting if you've never communicated with them before, online-dating-cf. Absolve yourself and save your time. I recently had a full days worth of conversation with a guy through online dating only to find out he wanted kids his profile stated 'might want them' which I find so wishy washymy profile stated very clearly online-dating-cf two places that I didn't want them.

He still asked if I was open to dating someone who online-dating-cf want them down the line. I was like, 'uh online-dating-cf, because I don't want kids, this isn't compatible. like wtf In my experience, when a guy says "not online-dating-cf, "undecided", online-dating-cf, "maybe", etc those all mean "yes, I want children but I won't say so for whatever reason. Also, online-dating-cf, I online-dating-cf out there's some skeevy guys who think that CF women are "easy", so they'll play the 'undecided' card to get their foot in the door, then once they get what they want hint: it's not conversationthey "suddenly realize" that kids are super important to them and out the door they go.

This is only some guys, there are a lot of good ones out there online-dating-cf. Just something to keep an eye out for. If I'm giving too much unsolicited advice, pls disregard. Haha no worries. Ya it's one of those things where you take a chance unfortunately after all the options in the 'dont want kids' section of online dating are sifted online-dating-cf. Having used online dating for almost a decade Ugh I feel old haha I am definitely aware that men like to do the whole undecided thing, online-dating-cf.

I was lucky in catching his drift for why he wanted to still see me. Held my ground and said no, so caught that one easy. A online-dating-cf of people - both men and women - will only look at a profile online-dating-cf and take it from there without actually reading a profile. It's annoying, online-dating-cf. It is so annoying, online-dating-cf. Like, there are so many things on a profile that people should read in addition to the child free status.

Thank you for your validating online-dating-cf. I appreciate it. I think they do look at the profile, just choose what they want to acknowledge. As in 'I'll change her mind about kids, she may want them with me', online-dating-cf. But I suspect if you put in that you had 5 online-dating-cf, they would not respond, even if it was a hot online-dating-cf. I needed this!

Thank you so much! I really need to stop worrying about what strangers are going to think of me. These people are just vampires of time an energy, online-dating-cf. By responding they get a meal and you lose another 10 minutes of your life. Lol I love it! Thank you for being so encouraging. I adore this subreddit and all of its members. This is hands down the most supportive community I have ever been a part of.

it's such a bummer when I see cool guys on the app and then see that they have kids, online-dating-cf. At my age they don't want more but I don't want to deal with your online-dating-cf, fun" kids. It sucks. Especially because I online-dating-cf like as I am getting older, more and more guys in the dating pool have kids.

And it just sucks. Well, in my online-dating-cf, every time I give up, someone comes along. It doesn't always work out, but it usually is enough to me regain my hope.

 · There's sometimes a misconception about being too old to date online. In fact, the 50+ age group is the fastest growing demographic on dating sites  · The singles on CFdating are childless by choice, and they want to stay that way. These individuals have often put a lot of thought into their futures, withstood questioning from family members, and concluded that having children isn’t in their best interest. CFdating doesn’t judge As a CF woman who's done the online thing, here's my 2 cents: Don't bother responding to the guys who want kids. Either they didn't bother reading your profile very closely, or they think you're playing games or will "change your mind."